Events

Getting Back to Where it All Began

From the beginning, Dissonance has been about convening community and sharing experiences, in the hopes of smashing stigmas and bringing to light the all-too-common struggles and challenges many of us face in trying to live healthy, happy, and productive lives. As Dissonance has grown and evolved we've concentrated on building a network, crafting our mission and vision, and launching as a non-profit entity. We are so thrilled with the community that has developed around us and the connections we've made during this time. And now, we are ready to get back to our first love: hosting creative people in conversation with each other.

Everywhere we look, starting the day after Halloween(!), we are inundated with images of happy families, celebratory friendship groups, and romantic couples frolicking in winter wonderlands of merriment and joy. We are invited to countless parties in our work and home lives, and exposed to thousands of images of various types of overindulgence. It can be suffocating and oppressive for those who are lonely, who are dealing with loss or illness, who don't drink or have eating disorders, or who can't navigate a stress-free family situation.

Good news! You're not alone. Please join us for our next event, "Unhappy Holidays", on December 15th at Open Book in Minneapolis, as we look at the challenges presented by the holiday season. We'll get real about how hard this time of year can be, we'll hear from some very creative people about how they cope with the stressors, and we'll be treated to their creative output in the form of song and storytelling.

We'll gather together in a stress-free, supportive environment with people who aren't related, but who can relate.

Our guests include Nora McInerny Purmort, Katy Vernon, and Davina Sowers (of the Vagabonds). Nora is the author of "It's Okay to Laugh (Crying Is Cool Too)" and host of "Terrible, Thanks for Asking". Katy is a Minneapolis-based British singer-songwriter and Dissonance blogger who calls herself a "singer of sad songs on a happy instrument" (the ukelele!). Davina heads up the internationally acclaimed and high energy jazz-blues group Davina and the Vagabonds. The conversation will be facilitated by longtime friend-of-Dissonance and interviewer, David Campbell along with Dissonance board member and psychotherapist, Sarah Souder Johnson. 

It's important to us at Dissonance that anyone who wants to attend our events can do so, so we don't charge an admission fee; however, we are a non-profit organization that believes in paying the artists we work with. If you can chip in to attend the event, or make a contribution to Dissonance so we can continue to host events like this, please select that option on the reservation page and pay any amount you can. Every contribution makes a difference and goes directly to overhead costs.

Here is the direct link to the event and ticket page: http://tinyurl.com/UnhappyHolidays

We hope you can join us, and we want to thank our hosts Open Book Minneapolis and Milkweed Books for making this event possible. What better space for an event like this than a bookstore? You can browse their shelves and find inspiration or do some holiday shopping while you're there. NO PRESSURE THOUGH.

I'm so proud to be part of this great community, and I hope you join me and this fantastic group of people in this new format of Dissonance events, and we look forward to many more events in the near future. Stay tuned.

 

Ali Lozoff is a board member and the marketing chair for Dissonance. Now the Director of the 50th Anniversary at Minnesota Public Radio, Ali has twenty years of experience in the fields of branding and identity, strategic planning, vision and mission work, event and project management, idea development, writing, social networking, partnerships and sponsorships with strong ties to the local arts and culture community. She also enjoys long walks by the lake.

Get Help. Do it for Prince.

By Carl Atiya Swanson

Hi, I’m Carl and I’m an addict.

Prince apparently died the day before he was scheduled to meet with a doctor about treatment for his addiction to painkillers. It’s an irony and a tragedy that goes to the capriciousness and insidiousness of addiction, that a performer who exerted so much control in his own creative life, who was energetic, clean living, right with his own God could be taken away from us like that.

Now it’s been over 7 hours and 13 days since you took your love away, and it’s been over 8 years and 155 days since I graduated from rehab. I keep my head down, do good work, try to love my family and build in enough creative, social and recovery-oriented outlets so that if times are hard, I have options. I find comfort in knowing that AA meetings are there if I need them, and that they help my friends. I carry my AA 24 hour medallion because those hours matter, like Prince showed us.

I am also not so foolish to think that my own sobriety and work in recovery can or should be universally applicable. There are whole systems of underemployment, economic need, failed infrastructure, gender norms, and mental health stigmas at play. I stay sober because I have options and support networks that are functional and loving. There is a lot of privilege - and more than a little luck - in that. I am eternally grateful that other people were willing to love me when I was incapable of loving myself. I hope Prince knows how much we loved him, and would have been willing to help him.

The double irony of Prince’s passing is that the day it happened, MPR shared an interview with Gary Louris of The Jayhawks who opened up about his own opiate addiction, what it took to get help, and how he didn’t do his most creative work when he was stoned. I’m grateful to him for sharing his story and to anyone who shares their struggle with how difficult, weird and glorious living can be.

If you feel like you are suffering, reach out to someone you love. You are dearly beloved, even when you don’t feel like you should or could be. Reach out to a stranger. Call for help. Recognize your triggers. Find a meeting - http://aaminneapolis.org/. Live your best, funkiest life. Do it for Prince.

 

Carl Atiya Swanson is a Dissonance Board Member.